Decide who will give and who will receive. Invite the receiver to lay face-down on a massage table, bed or blanket on the floor. Make sure they are warm and comfortable. The giver then grounds him or herself and gently lays their hands on the receiver. Recognize this is a unique opportunity to honor and serve your beloved. Attune yourself to the receiver. One way to attune is by breathing with them for a few minutes.
Begin to awaken their skin by lightly stroking it with feathers, fur or the tips of your fingers. When you are ready, cover their body with warm oil. Use long, slow massage strokes. You are massaging more than the surface of their body. You are connecting to them on multiple levels. Encourage them to take deep breaths, make sounds and move their body. This allows the energy in the body to awaken, move and release. Use different parts of your body- your hair, arms and chest, to massage your partner. Be playful, curious and creative.
About half-way through the allotted time, invite the receiver to roll over. Massage the front of their body with warm oil, again using long strokes. Introduce sound in a new way by toning on their body, using sounds like, Ahh, Yumm or Omm. This can be a powerful tool for activating your partners energy-body.
When they feel ready, offer to explore their genitals. In SkyDancing Tantra we call the vagina, “Yoni,” which means “Cosmic Matrix” and the penis, “Vajra,” which means “Thunderbolt.” Begin on the outside of the genitals with oil. At first, be gentle and go slow. Allow them time to release any tension in the area. Listen to their body. Watch them respond and become aroused. Focus on what gives them pleasure. Try different strokes. Again, be creative. If you are going to do internal massage, use a water-based lubricant. How much pleasure can they allow? Are they open to exploring the possibility of multiple orgasms?
Close by spooning together and connecting your heart centers with love, compassion and gratitude. Help them to sit up and end with a Heart Salutation. Offer them water or juice to drink and a chocolate or piece of fruit to eat. You may want to share what this experience was like for you. How was it to give and/or receive in this way?
- Start off by going for the correct setting. You can go for silk sheets, scented candles and some water based ointments. You can likewise go for scented back rub oils, simply dodge these on her genitalia. You don’t need her to break out in rashes thereafter! Ensure your nails are cut and your hands are very much oiled before you get going with the back rub.
- Set the temperament for some sentiment by investigating her eyes and going for synchronized relaxing. Stroke her face and fingers and afterward lie her face down on the table. Go for a casual back rub on her upper and lower body. Your strokes ought to be firm yet delicate. Focus on her neck, midriff and thighs. You could likewise attempt the backs of her knees. You ought not hang over the table. Go for skimming strokes and ensure that you hands are in steady touch with her body.
- You can get her explicitly invigorated by either the clitoris or the g spot. If all else fails, simply do both and ask her which she likes. You can do both together when she is exceptionally stimulated.
- You can have a go at kneading her clitoris around and around or one next to the other. On the off chance that you get an unmistakable message concerning which is better, simply stick to it. Normally, a lady will appreciate g spot incitement just when she is very stirred. Till that time, utilize greased up fingers to energize her clitoris.
- If you are not having intercourse after this, take a stab at covering her in something warm. It tends to be an exceptionally tranquil encounter!
Phone:0725 252 500